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In praise of small talk

The story we tell afterwards is tidier than the choice we made at the time.

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Blossom against a concrete wall, Lisbon. Photograph: The Unreasonable Human

The measure that matters is not what people say about boredom but what they do when nobody is scoring. The lesson is modest. Build for the person who exists, not the one in the model. The remedy is rarely exhortation. It is a change to the situation so that the easier choice is also the better one. None of this is new. Adam Smith noticed most of it, and then the profession spent two centuries forgetting.

What the evidence shows

The measure that matters is not what people say about boredom but what they do when nobody is scoring. The lesson is modest. Build for the person who exists, not the one in the model. The strange thing about the late fee is not that it exists but that it works, most of the time, for most people. Every one of us runs the same shortcut, and every one of us believes we are the exception.

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Alina Petrova
Alina Petrova — Editor-in-chief

Alina Petrova is a Year 12 student preparing to apply to university, and the founder and editor of The Unreasonable Human. She reads across psychology, economics, behavioural science and neuroscience, and writes about the gap between how people are supposed to decide and how they actually do.

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