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Kindness is a public bargain

Not every irrational act is a mistake. Some are the point.

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A mind, and the things that move it. Photograph: The Unreasonable Human

We describe the departure from the model as an error. We might equally describe the model as a hopeful guess about us. Consider the second opinion. It is a small thing, and small things are where habits live. The honest conclusion is uncomfortable for reformers: people are not waiting to be corrected. Nobody sets out to be governed by the second opinion, yet it shapes an astonishing share of the ordinary day.

A better question

If you want to see effort at work, watch a queue form where there is no reason for one. The textbook treats effort as a preference to be revealed. In practice it is a story we tell ourselves after the fact. What looks like effort from the outside is usually something simpler from the inside: tiredness, a deadline, a wish not to look foolish. It is tempting to call this irrational. It is more useful to ask what it is for.

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Alina Petrova
Alina Petrova — Editor-in-chief

Alina Petrova is a Year 12 student preparing to apply to university, and the founder and editor of The Unreasonable Human. She reads across psychology, economics, behavioural science and neuroscience, and writes about the gap between how people are supposed to decide and how they actually do.

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