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Before we try to fix people, it is worth understanding what they are for.

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Institutions know all this, of course, which is why the waiting room is so rarely left to chance. It is tempting to call this irrational. It is more useful to ask what it is for. Economists have spent decades modelling regret as a quantity. It behaves more like a weather system. Every one of us runs the same shortcut, and every one of us believes we are the exception.

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Notice how rarely anyone is argued out of the waiting room, and how often they are simply moved past it by a change in circumstance. If you want to see regret at work, watch a queue form where there is no reason for one. A pattern this consistent is not a character flaw. It is a design feature, and design features can be worked with. There is a version of this essay that ends with a policy prescription. This is not that version; the mechanism is interesting enough on its own.

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Alina Petrova
Alina Petrova — Editor-in-chief

Alina Petrova is a Year 12 student preparing to apply to university, and the founder and editor of The Unreasonable Human. She reads across psychology, economics, behavioural science and neuroscience, and writes about the gap between how people are supposed to decide and how they actually do.

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